Updated on January 15, 2025

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Imagine getting nearly 1,500 angry calls with customer complaints per day!

It would be a nightmare.

Yet, years ago, in 1985, this nightmarish situation came to life for Coca-Cola after changing the drink’s recipe. The brand faced street protests and received over a thousand stressful calls (daily!) from customers outraged by the new taste.

But sometimes, even the biggest flop like this can eventually lead to the most legendary triumph—only if you know how to transition from a negative to a positive customer experience (CX).

Let’s figure it out in this guide. It will instruct you on managing customer complaints and communicating with customers in high-pressure situations.

Top Customer Complaints That May Escalate Into Heated Discussions

Explore the most common customer grievances with possible preventive measures.

Poor Product/Service Quality

Complaint:

What if we told you that a great product or service quality is even a more powerful loyalty driver than pleasant customer support?

In fact, it is such for 61% of consumers compared to 47%.

But when the quality leaves much to be desired, they may feel they don’t get enough value for the money they pay. It may be:

  • Broken or malfunctioning item
  • Low-quality materials
  • Inconsistency with the description
  • Unappealing design
  • Bad packaging, etc.

For example:

Here’s a review from a customer who was dissatisfied with the product quality, calling it “abysmal” on one of the online selling sites.

A collection of reviews displayed on lavender packaging, highlighting customer feedback and product satisfaction.
Negative review of Lavender Packaging citing poor product quality and slow, dirty shipping.

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Preventive measure:

Prioritize the quality of your products/services to improve customer satisfaction and prevent complaints that may grow into emotionally charged interactions.

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Long Waiting Times

Complaint:

You must have heard these phrases: “Time is our most valuable asset” (Jim Rohn) or “Time is money” (Ben Franklin).

These are very true for your customers, who naturally get disgruntled or aggressive when they lose precious minutes, let alone hours.

Suppose you experience a holiday rush to your online or physical store with queuing customers angrily complaining about long wait times. This is commonplace for numerous brands on high-traffic holidays like Black Friday, Christmas, etc.

Preventive measure:

Prepare for a spike in customer numbers beforehand and improve response times.

Note: Every second customer expects companies to respond faster than four hours, and every tenth expects a reply in 15 minutes or less.

You might also need backup personnel to step in during emergencies or implement innovative technology for self-service.

For example:

When TelOne faced the problem of long lines, the company found a solution: Kommunicate’s WhatsApp integration.

An illustration of the Komuniti platform showcasing its efficient WhatsApp integration capabilities.
Kommunicate praised for efficient integrations, NLP, and chatbot handoff.

Difficulties in Reaching Support

Complaint:

Despite multiple attempts, I couldn’t reach your support. This is very disappointing […].”

That’s what the bus ticket buyer tweeted on X.

Unreachable support, limited contact options, or breakdowns in communication with customer service representatives may also frustrate customers and cause them to complain angrily.

Preventive measure:

Make sure you’re available 24/7 across multiple communication channels:

  • Email
  • Phone
  • Social channels
  • Website

Again, a self-service tool like an AI chatbot can help you address the simplest customer concerns and free your support team to deal with other problems.

For example:

Kommunicate helped Epic Sports automatically resolve 60% of customer queries on the website with a highly responsive chatbot.

A website screenshot featuring a range of soccer gear, showcasing jerseys, shoes, and equipment for soccer enthusiasts.
Epic Sports chatbot: User checks order status, no orders found.

Delayed Delivery

Complaint:

When asked, “What annoys you most in the delivery experience?” 40% of consumers confessed that late deliveries were the second most annoying thing.

A bar chart illustrating the top concerns of people, highlighting various issues and their levels of worry.
Delivery frustrations: “Missed” deliveries (55%), late (40%), wrong location/damage (36%).

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People expect their purchases or parcels (in courier or delivery services) to arrive as promised—on time. If delayed, it can become a huge annoyance and inconvenience, particularly if they ordered a product for a specific purpose or occasion (say, a birthday gift).

Moreover, a delay is like a betrayal of customer trust, which leads to disappointment, too.

Preventive measure:

Optimize supply chain management and shipping operations and track real-time shipments to anticipate and address delays proactively.

Expert Tips on Handling Complaints and Stressful Talks with Customers

Show Empathy and Understanding

Did you know?

Nearly one-third of consumers are dissatisfied with the empathy level of contact center agents.

Discover how to deal with angry customers in a more empathetic way to make the “storm” subside:

  • Listen actively and take notes.
  • Give them time to talk it out without objections.
  • Don’t take the anger personally; focus on the customer complaint instead.
  • Use apologetic and compassionate phrases: “I’m truly sorry you had this experience” and “I understand you. I’d also feel frustrated in this situation.”
  • Take ownership: “I’ll personally see to it and update you on every step.”

In addition, Chris Aubeeluck, Head of Sales and Marketing at Osbornes Law, emphasizes the importance of taking full responsibility, whether individual or shared, ethical, financial, or even legal. “You should avoid blame-shifting, understand and acknowledge the mistake (if any), and face up to the consequences when managing customer complaints in high-stress situations. In some cases, companies must be prepared to take legal responsibility for breaching the contract, violating product liability laws, or false advertising.”

Be Radically Transparent While Fixing the Issue

Radical transparency is, kind of, an open kitchen in a restaurant.

It reassures the customer that you have nothing to hide—no pitfalls or manipulations on your side—only unfiltered truth. As a bonus, your raw openness can eventually switch the toggle from “negativity” to “positivity” and revive customer loyalty and trust.

But how can you show maximum honesty when resolving customer issues?

Via a sincere email, right?

Wrong. It may be insufficient in escalated discussions with customers.

Rodger Desai, CEO of Prove, argues that emails don’t work when customer complaints boil into stressful arguments. He suggests a more open-book approach. “Be crystal-clear and transparent about solving the customer’s issue. It would be wise to send a screen recording or, sometimes, even a live stream of how you tackle the problem instead of a standard email.”

From a family business perspective, Toni Farrell, Marketing Manager at Coastal Motorhomes & Caravans, shares, “We treat our customers like family members. And, as in any family, honesty is key. So, whenever a delay happens in delivering a motorhome or caravan, we inform the buyer about it at the budding stage and make short videos on every delivery step.”

By the way, the marketing team repurposes those (with the customer’s consent) for social media posts.

Image of a red truck and trailer parked together, both in vibrant red, showcasing their bold color.
Customer’s second purchase, a red “Big Red Thredbo” motorhome, heading to the Hilltop Gathering.

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Avoid Devaluing the Problem With Humor and Jokes

Let’s admit it—it’s so tempting just to crack a joke to cool off the situation and decrease the tension.

Suppose the customer is furiously complaining about a late delivery. But you already imagine their angry face stretching into a broad smile, cheered up after hearing your light-hearted apology, “We’re sorry for the delay. Our time machine has broken.”

Most probably, that’s what you’ve been taught in customer service training courses: use humor to soften the atmosphere and prevent the “vulcano” from disruption.

But don’t hurry to bank on it.

Grant Aldrich, Founder of Online Degree, notes, “Although humor often ranks first among conflict de-escalation techniques, it may have quite the opposite effect in tense customer conversations. Rather than smoothing things over, it can increase customer dissatisfaction and irritation. The customer may interpret it as sheer mockery and feel that you don’t take their complaint seriously and devalue it.”

Involve the CEO When Appropriate

This strategy is crucial for high-stakes customer complaints.

Here’s when the CX team leader might need to involve the company’s chief executive officer:

  • High-profile or VIP customers
  • Severe escalations with financial, reputational, or legal threats
  • Extreme attention from the public/media
  • Company-wide problems that require cross-departmental collaboration (e.g., between sales and support teams)
  • Recurring, systemic issues

But what should the CEO do?

Take it from Max Tang, CMO at GEEKOM, who, as a seasoned marketer, believes that CEO’s participation can not only help you manage customer complaints but also draw marketing gains from them. “Whenever it is appropriate, ask the CEO to step in to communicate with customers personally (via email, phone, or video call) or publicly (via press conferences, briefs, or Q&A sessions). The CEO’s involvement will demonstrate the company’s candid and serious take on customer complaints. In turn, this will create a positive brand image and generate a reputational win.”

For example:

After repeatedly receiving similar concerns from G-fans, GEEKOM’s CEO, Alan Chen, openly addressed the hottest issues with the company’s mini PCs in a “lightning round” format.

A dynamic scene featuring a lightning round quiz with German-themed questions and vibrant visuals.
GEEKOM CEO answers questions about their Mini PCs, including the MEGAMINI G1 and MINI PG.

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How to Turn a Customer Complaints into an Opportunity

Personalize and Offer More Than Anticipated

Do you handle customer complaints in a “conveyor belt” manner?

Call it a hunch, but we’d say you habitually follow the same protocol, especially if you’re in eCommerce. Here it is: When the customer’s rage escalates, you try to make amends with a discount (10% or 15%, is it?) or free shipping.

In the words of Brooke Webber, Head of Marketing at Ninja Patches, you should personalize customer experiences and “wow” your displeased customers with the unexpected. “Think of something they never anticipate from you. Push the limits of customer service to surpass their expectations, and you’ll be able to spin the CX around from negative into positive.”

Consider the following ideas:

  • Digital or hand-written apology note
  • Personalized “We’re Sorry” kit
  • Hobby-related gift (e.g., a scratch-off world map for travel lovers)
  • Gift card for their favorite online service or shop
  • Event ticket

For example:

To compensate for the shipping delay, Lyle & Scott sent a “We’re sorry” card with a gift and received a five-star review from the customer.

A shopper examining a used car with a price tag, looking satisfied while comparing it to other options nearby.
Positive review for Lyle & Scott mentioning professionalism and a gift for a shipping delay.

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Launch a “Complaint to Spotlight” Campaign

Why not shout out about the fixed issue or improvement in your social media marketing campaign?

You can thank your customers for feedback and turn customer complaints into opportunities to promote your brand across social platforms. Personal shout-outs can delight your customers and transform even the most dissatisfied into loyal advocates.

For instance, it could go like this: “Thanks to [CustomerName], we’ve improved our [product or service]!

Note: Remember to ask permission before disclosing their name and complaint in your social media post.

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Track Complaint Patterns to Spot Gaps and Improve

Accumulating and categorizing customer complaints can help you spotlight areas for improvement.

Working with SaaS customers, Nick Esposito, Founder at NYCServers, claims this is significant from the long-term perspective. “Short-term fixes don’t last long, overflowing into more troubles. You should monitor tendencies in customer complaints, find the root causes of deeper problems, and—ultimately—minimize the number of unhappy or irritated customers in the future.”

He also recommends looking for patterns and trends based on factors like time, issue type, location, or customer segment:

  • Are surges in customer complaints time-bound (perhaps during the holiday season)?
  • Is a particular product or service area more problematic?
  • Does the issue relate to only a specific region or demographic market?

For example:

When the Arch Web Design team noticed a spike in requests for simpler access to project files, they created an online hub with all the essential documents for SaaS web design project management.

A visual guide to the project overview hub, designed to help you easily launch and manage your projects effectively.
Arch Web Design’s new online hub streamlines SaaS web design project management.

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Addressing Customer Complaints in High-Pressure Situations

Use these strategies to turn customer complaints into company successes and marketing wins.

Remember that conversational AI tools like chatbots can also assist you with complaint management. With Kommunicate, you can easily train your chatbot to answer simplistic concerns while you respond to difficult customers.

It’s as easy as 1-2-3. Check it yourself—try it here for free!

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